Art As Therapy: Coping With Feelings of Grief During the Holiday Season

oliday season can be a challenging time for mostpromotion of feelings of joy, peacefulness, and calm
anyone as the stresses of finances, increasedcome about because of the release of the pleasure
demands of time and tasks, and unrealisticinducing chemicals called endorphins, the mood
expectations show themselves in a grand way.enhancing neurotransmitter serotonin, along with the
Furthermore, if you are a person that is workinglowering of heart rate and respiration. Alpha
through feelings of grief at this time, everything canbrainwave patterns are also initiated which are the
become compounded.patterns that present themselves during moments of
The holidays can create feelings of depression,prayer and meditation. The process of making art
loneliness, and anxiety for the bereaved as theyalso provides a kinesthetic release that enables a
remember past events. Holidays by nature are filledperson to channel her emotions and physical energy
with nostalgia, tradition and ritual, but for thoseoutward rather than suppressing and tightening within.
grieving, this can bring up conflicted feelings of bothThere are a variety of ways to use art and
comfort and distress as the absence of theimagination as a tonic in the recovery from loss and
deceased becomes more apparent. As the rest ofgrief. One of the ways that is helpful is by keeping a
the world is celebrating, it’s important forfeelings art journal. This can be an excellent way to
grieving individuals to acknowledge their emotionaltrack what is happening within on a daily basis.
pain and get through the season with a minimumExperiment with color, lines and shape to follow
amount of stress. Being able to express ones griefemotions, being aware of body sensations rather
verbally can be difficult. Art expression, as athan focusing on thoughts about the current
non-verbal modality, can be an effective way ofemotional state. For example, if you are feeling sad,
working through and containing grief when words falltry to sense where that sadness lies in your body
short.and express this sensation as spontaneously as
Throughout history, art making has been a means bypossible.
which humans have expressed their grief. WhetherAnother way that is helpful in containing grief is by
through burial ceremonies, shrines, or memorials, theusing imagery to soothe and restore the spirit. Gather
symbols that represent loss have been important forobjects and images (photos, magazines, calendar
coping and relieving emotional distress.photos) that bring forth feelings of appreciation,
Creativity can be a way to feel the sadness, angerpleasure, compassion and gratitude and use these as
and loss as well as the remembrance of times past ininspiration for your own art. While this art making is
all their imperfections and grace, while taking time tomeant to be enlivening in the moment of making it, it
understand oneself in the context of the whole.is also meant to remind and inspire you when times
Overwhelming thoughts and feelings can be capturedfeel challenging in the future.
in the images thereby creating a new sense ofArt as therapy is medicine for the soul. And while
control, organization, and containment. Focusing oncreativity can be a wonderful companion on ones
the images or symbols enables a person to expresshealing journey, know your limits. It may be
stressful emotions without having to refer directly toimportant to seek out a professional therapist,
details surrounding the loss.support group or pastoral counselor that can help you
Art making as a healing process allows for manyfurther with the trauma or loss and can be the
positive effects to happen physiologically. Thewitness to your art expressions and emotions.