Art As Therapy - Coping With Feelings of Grief During the Holiday Season

The holiday season can be a challenging time forcome about because of the release of the pleasure
most anyone as the stresses of finances, increasedinducing chemicals called endorphins, the mood
demands of time and tasks, and unrealisticenhancing neurotransmitter serotonin, along with the
expectations show themselves in a grand way.lowering of heart rate and respiration. Alpha
Furthermore, if you are a person that is workingbrainwave patterns are also initiated which are the
through feelings of grief at this time, everything canpatterns that present themselves during moments of
become compounded.prayer and meditation. The process of making art
The holidays can create feelings of depression,also provides a kinesthetic release that enables a
loneliness, and anxiety for the bereaved as theyperson to channel her emotions and physical energy
remember past events. Holidays by nature are filledoutward rather than suppressing and tightening within.
with nostalgia, tradition and ritual, but for thoseThere are a variety of ways to use art and
grieving, this can bring up conflicted feelings of bothimagination as a tonic in the recovery from loss and
comfort and distress as the absence of thegrief. One of the ways that is helpful is by keeping a
deceased becomes more apparent. As the rest offeelings art journal. This can be an excellent way to
the world is celebrating, it's important for grievingtrack what is happening within on a daily basis.
individuals to acknowledge their emotional pain andExperiment with color, lines and shape to follow
get through the season with a minimum amount ofemotions, being aware of body sensations rather
stress. Being able to express ones grief verbally canthan focusing on thoughts about the current
be difficult. Art expression, as a non-verbal modality,emotional state. For example, if you are feeling sad,
can be an effective way of working through andtry to sense where that sadness lies in your body
containing grief when words fall short.and express this sensation as spontaneously as
Throughout history, art making has been a means bypossible.
which humans have expressed their grief. WhetherAnother way that is helpful in containing grief is by
through burial ceremonies, shrines, or memorials, theusing imagery to soothe and restore the spirit. Gather
symbols that represent loss have been important forobjects and images (photos, magazines, calendar
coping and relieving emotional distress.photos) that bring forth feelings of appreciation,
Creativity can be a way to feel the sadness, angerpleasure, compassion and gratitude and use these as
and loss as well as the remembrance of times past ininspiration for your own art. While this art making is
all their imperfections and grace, while taking time tomeant to be enlivening in the moment of making it, it
understand oneself in the context of the whole.is also meant to remind and inspire you when times
Overwhelming thoughts and feelings can be capturedfeel challenging in the future.
in the images thereby creating a new sense ofArt as therapy is medicine for the soul. And while
control, organization, and containment. Focusing oncreativity can be a wonderful companion on ones
the images or symbols enables a person to expresshealing journey, know your limits. It may be
stressful emotions without having to refer directly toimportant to seek out a professional therapist,
details surrounding the loss.support group or pastoral counselor that can help you
Art making as a healing process allows for manyfurther with the trauma or loss and can be the
positive effects to happen physiologically. Thewitness to your art expressions and emotions.
promotion of feelings of joy, peacefulness, and calm