Can You Afford to Be a Shopaholic?

Do you have an insatiable desire to buy things andShopping to lift you mood
then find they weren't really what you wanted in theLooking forward to buying something, but feeling
first place? Do you find you buy compulsively, evenguilty once you've bought it
when you know you can't afford it? Then you couldPossessing many similar items that are never used or
be a shopaholic!worn
The term shopaholic is in truth bandied around with aCompulsively buying more of the same items even
humorous connotation, because lets face it we allthough you are deeply in debt
love to buy things and sometimes when we haveFeeling depressed after a shopping excursion
excess cash or even when we are in a particularHaving to sneak your latest purchase into the house
mood, we take it out on the credit card.in case you partner sees it and goes mad!
Typically, women love to buy clothes and shoes andIf you can relate to these issues and feel you need
men go for gadgets and boys toys, both maybehelp to get out of this spiral at least you have
expressing a desire to have the latest fashion or newrecognized that you have a problem.
toy, but the true shopaholic will buy stuff and thenLike all addictive behaviours you will need firstly to
feel that guilty they probably won't show off theirrecognize that you want to change. No doubt the
purchases to anyone else, because they know theyspiralling credit card charges and feelings of guilt and
can;t really afford them and sometimes, will even trysometimes deception, will make that decision easier.
to return their purchases without even taking themYou will probably feel that by looking for help you will
out of their wrapper.be laughed at and made to feel silly with such a trivial
Shopaholic behaviour has the hallmark of beingissue, which is why the use of self hypnosis can be
obsessional and it is when we are purchasing thean ideal way of treating your problem, taking away
150th pair of shoes knowing that 140 pairs of themthe need to discuss your apparently trivial problem
have never been out of the house, that there is awith a third party.
problem to be resolved.Because your shopping behaviour is making up for a
Purchasing any luxury or personal item should alwaysdeep seated need for affection, you are effectively
give us a pleasant feeling, but if our credit card istreating yourself, to boost your self worth and to
taking the hit and we're not sure if we can pay theprovide the feelings you crave for. By using hypnosis
balance, then this can become a serious issue.you can reprogramme your subconscious to build
Very often things are bought to feed the feelings ofinner feelings of self worth and replace the need to
anticipation and expectation associated with owningbuy things with positive feelings of well being.
them, but the unfortunate thing is that as soon asWithout the compulsion to buy unneeded and
we have purchased them we are looking for theunnecessary things you will experience a new found
next 'glittering prize' to feed the fantasy.freedom and feeling of independence which will
The main indicators you will relate to if you are aaffect you and your bank balance beneficially!
true shopaholic are: