The Art of Waiting

With the focus on thoughts, we are much moreappreciate the silence beyond your thoughts; you
aware of time. When our awareness goes beyondneed a habit that is associated to no understanding.
thinking, we enter a timeless moment where theIf you just create the habit of breathing into silence,
Wisdom of the Body choreographs our life. Thethat simple comfort justifies your effort. To many,
frustration of waiting is our resistance to letting go ofunderstanding justifies our actions, but sometimes
our habitual habit of focusing on thinking. Imagine ifunderstanding limits you. When you want to go
waiting opened the door to creativity and spirituality.beyond thinking, understanding that justifies your
If that happened, waiting would be a gift that wasactions limits you to focusing on your thoughts.
not resisted.It takes faith to develop a habit free from
We often say "wait a minute" as a subconscious wayunderstanding, but it is possible. To the person who
of entering that state of mind, but when it comes tohabitually focuses on their thoughts, being aware of
us without choice, frustration often arises. Just think,this inner silence seems impossible, but when you
if a simple breath transported your awareness tolook at the highlights of your life, you are naturally
that beyond thought inner reality. Waiting could easilyaware of this reality. We do not remember the
become the break your deepest wisdom desires. Inbeyond thought reality because there were no words
fact, in a way that inner wisdom is always striving forthere to capture our memory.
completion, if you are ready to accept it withTrue love exists there. For why does a parent love
openness, waiting is a gift.their child so much or do lovers bond together? Logic
So let "wait a minute" be the trigger that stops youdoesn't answer that question, but we accept it when
focusing on thoughts and connects you to theit happens. Why cannot simply waiting trigger that
Wisdom of your Body. Then, when your daily flow isdepth? If neural pathways were developed to
interrupted, you could create the habit of completion.connect you to the silence beyond your thinking mind
When you stop at a red light or wait for a doctor,and you accepted that, waiting could be a profound
instead of ego being suspended in nothingnessmoment.
causing frustration, wisdom embraces the moment toOf course, these neural pathways are not the
complete you.easiest to develop, but is that a reason to ignore the
Now let us look at impatience. That is when yourart of waiting? If we developed habits that celebrate
awareness has no comfortable place to land. Maybesilence and felt comfortable there, waiting would
you were expecting something, but there is nothingautomatically take us there. Unfortunately, for most
comforting to land your awareness on. Let meof us, the thoughts in our mind are more valuable
propose an alternative; you do not have to look tothan the comfort of silence and waiting frustrates us.
thoughts to comfort you.In the same way waiting does not attract modern
If you developed a habit of having your awarenessman and silence seems like nothing, our thoughts
and breath entering the silence beyond yourhave the power to cover silence and exclude us
thoughts, your wait would find a comfortable placefrom inner wisdom. A simple breath has the power to
to land. You do not have to be a philosopher tochange that. What are you waiting for?